I want our relationship to work and he wants it to work but it is just not working what do we do?

We have been together for 1 year and 7 months we moved in with one another after about 7 months and have had quite a few extraordinary issues dealing with trust In which he lost my trust (no infidelity). We fight and cant area about most important things. Things like who it is and isnt appropriate to talk to and in what way via txt. Also what behavior is appropriate as far as going out and staying out. Recently we had a huge blow out and I decided to move out. I am so torn as to whether we should continue this or not. If you need me to clarify anything any probing questions I will answer I am so lost I love him so much but Im exhausted and want to give up.