For divorced men who remarried?

Can you love your second wife after remarrying for the second time, even though you did not want a divorce from the first wife? In other words, did you move on and became happy with the 2nd wife? How long did it take you to move on? any word of advice.... i have been dating my boyfriend (divorced) for about 6mts already...he has been divorced for two years and has a 4year old son. they divorced because they could not get along, financial problems, arguments etc. no infidelity involved. Thanks in advance for any advice and stories.