Friday, August 12, 2011

I think I have gotten too comfortable with staying single?

Ever since my divorce (due to infidelity) I've dated a little but no one has really caught my attention. Plus, I've seen and witnessed too many bad relationships all around me. I'm used to seeing men who cheat on women and abuse them, and the women are good women. It just seems like theres more bad men than decent available ones and I won't settle. So now, its like if a guy even approaches me, I sort of play him to the left. I don't mean too, its just that I'm not ready to go through anymore BS with a man anytime soon. I've never seen a healthy, happy marriage. OR maybe it is just me? IS there anyone else who feels the same way? I don't think this is normal.

I want to be with her, but I don't know what the right thing to do is. What should I do?

I've been with this girl on and off for 2 years now. I've grown to like her a lot, maybe I just got accustomed to her. Things were falling apart terribly the last 6 months of our relationship, so we decided to take a break to do self searching, maybe date other people and see what we really want, and meanwhile we would remain friends. Obviously it was very hard to remain just friends, it was unhealthy because there was sexual tension constantly there. So we decided not to talk to each other. And now, 2 months later she sends me a random text saying she wants to get together for coffee and catch up on things. I was OK with it, I thought maybe this is a good test to see where our feelings are for each other. We met up for coffee, talked things out and both agreed that we had each other in our minds this whole time we were apart. But I'm not so sure I'm the right person for her, I don't know if I can make her happy. I can honestly say I love her, and I want her to be happy, even if it means being her best friend. So my question is: Should I buy the new Call of Duty for PS3 when it comes out? Ten points and five stars to best answer.

Could I really be pregnant? PLEASE HELP!?

I'm 15 1/2, My boyfriend is almost 18, we've been together for 1 1/2 now and have been having sex since december 2010. We use condoms sometimes but not that much, and I just went on vacation but right before we had sex for probably 10min (Quickie:P) in his car 2 nights in a row without a condom, but he did pee before and thats said to kill semen until you come again, and he pulled out like 2min before he came. People say that traveling can make your period late, and also stress, which there was a LOT of stress on that vacation, my entire family was there, not to include the most annoying cousins on the planet. I was getting terribly moody on the trip, but not so much on the way home. I've been feeling a little quesy at times but never really throwing up and my period is 2 or 4 days late (Cant remember exactly when my last ended but I think it did May 24, and a little tiny bit of blood for the next 2 days then completely stopped) I've also been feeling kind of crampy and burning "down there" and a little bit more c** coming out but everything else is pretty much normal. So could I be pregnant, or am I just late from traveling and stress?

Can you please help me? feeling insecure next to this girl and now I'm going to...?

I feel the same way with this girl, we're not friends, never were, and it seems to me like anything I can do, she can do better, she had the perfect life, and I feel like I deserve it so much more than her. I've stopped going on her page, and I'm working on improving myself.

Should I use my singing talents to endorse Barack Obama in the 2012 election?

Everyone knows what a great voice I have, and I just love Prez Barack Obama, because he killed that evil dictator in Iraq. So, I am considering aiding his campaign with a song of mine. How thrilled will he be when he knows that he has my full support!

Should I reply or just not talk to her?

By replying, you are just fueling the fire and showing that you care. That is exactly what these immature people need. By not replying, you are showing that you are the more mature, responsible person. Like you said, she constantly needs attention, so by replying you are giving the attention she needs. Good luck!

Can someone give me advice about what should I do?

I cheated on my boyfriend two months ago and ended up with the guy I cheated him with.My(now ex)boyfriend never found out about my infidelity,although I thought he did.I broke up with that guy and told my ex boyfriend what I had done,not because I wanted to be with him,I just wanted him to know that I know I hurt him,and that I can't be happy knowing that.He wanted to meet up and when we did,he told me that he still loves me but he's on the way of getting over me.At first I felt at ease,but then the guy I left started begging me to make up,so we did.But we broke up again,it just couldn't work.After having some time alone to myself,I find myself thinking about my ex(the one I cheated on),about the songs he played to me,our jokes and conversations,his weird expressions...I just can't seem to stop thinking about him.So tell me.What should I do?Should I just let it go,because if I try anything I'll first have to tell him the whole truth?Or should I call him up and talk to him?I would ask a parent,but,my parents are dead,and I live with my grams,she's kinda old so I don't feel comfortable talking to her.Please.Someone tell me what to do.I just wanna make things right.For me and him.I don't want to be this person I've become.You guys are all I have.