I think I have gotten too comfortable with staying single?

Ever since my divorce (due to infidelity) I've dated a little but no one has really caught my attention. Plus, I've seen and witnessed too many bad relationships all around me. I'm used to seeing men who cheat on women and abuse them, and the women are good women. It just seems like theres more bad men than decent available ones and I won't settle. So now, its like if a guy even approaches me, I sort of play him to the left. I don't mean too, its just that I'm not ready to go through anymore BS with a man anytime soon. I've never seen a healthy, happy marriage. OR maybe it is just me? IS there anyone else who feels the same way? I don't think this is normal.

I want to be with her, but I don't know what the right thing to do is. What should I do?

I've been with this girl on and off for 2 years now. I've grown to like her a lot, maybe I just got accustomed to her. Things were falling apart terribly the last 6 months of our relationship, so we decided to take a break to do self searching, maybe date other people and see what we really want, and meanwhile we would remain friends. Obviously it was very hard to remain just friends, it was unhealthy because there was sexual tension constantly there. So we decided not to talk to each other. And now, 2 months later she sends me a random text saying she wants to get together for coffee and catch up on things. I was OK with it, I thought maybe this is a good test to see where our feelings are for each other. We met up for coffee, talked things out and both agreed that we had each other in our minds this whole time we were apart. But I'm not so sure I'm the right person for her, I don't know if I can make her happy. I can honestly say I love her, and I want her to be happy, even if it means being her best friend. So my question is: Should I buy the new Call of Duty for PS3 when it comes out? Ten points and five stars to best answer.

Could I really be pregnant? PLEASE HELP!?

I'm 15 1/2, My boyfriend is almost 18, we've been together for 1 1/2 now and have been having sex since december 2010. We use condoms sometimes but not that much, and I just went on vacation but right before we had sex for probably 10min (Quickie:P) in his car 2 nights in a row without a condom, but he did pee before and thats said to kill semen until you come again, and he pulled out like 2min before he came. People say that traveling can make your period late, and also stress, which there was a LOT of stress on that vacation, my entire family was there, not to include the most annoying cousins on the planet. I was getting terribly moody on the trip, but not so much on the way home. I've been feeling a little quesy at times but never really throwing up and my period is 2 or 4 days late (Cant remember exactly when my last ended but I think it did May 24, and a little tiny bit of blood for the next 2 days then completely stopped) I've also been feeling kind of crampy and burning "down there" and a little bit more c** coming out but everything else is pretty much normal. So could I be pregnant, or am I just late from traveling and stress?

Can you please help me? feeling insecure next to this girl and now I'm going to...?

I feel the same way with this girl, we're not friends, never were, and it seems to me like anything I can do, she can do better, she had the perfect life, and I feel like I deserve it so much more than her. I've stopped going on her page, and I'm working on improving myself.

Should I use my singing talents to endorse Barack Obama in the 2012 election?

Everyone knows what a great voice I have, and I just love Prez Barack Obama, because he killed that evil dictator in Iraq. So, I am considering aiding his campaign with a song of mine. How thrilled will he be when he knows that he has my full support!

Should I reply or just not talk to her?

By replying, you are just fueling the fire and showing that you care. That is exactly what these immature people need. By not replying, you are showing that you are the more mature, responsible person. Like you said, she constantly needs attention, so by replying you are giving the attention she needs. Good luck!

Can someone give me advice about what should I do?

I cheated on my boyfriend two months ago and ended up with the guy I cheated him with.My(now ex)boyfriend never found out about my infidelity,although I thought he did.I broke up with that guy and told my ex boyfriend what I had done,not because I wanted to be with him,I just wanted him to know that I know I hurt him,and that I can't be happy knowing that.He wanted to meet up and when we did,he told me that he still loves me but he's on the way of getting over me.At first I felt at ease,but then the guy I left started begging me to make up,so we did.But we broke up again,it just couldn't work.After having some time alone to myself,I find myself thinking about my ex(the one I cheated on),about the songs he played to me,our jokes and conversations,his weird expressions...I just can't seem to stop thinking about him.So tell me.What should I do?Should I just let it go,because if I try anything I'll first have to tell him the whole truth?Or should I call him up and talk to him?I would ask a parent,but,my parents are dead,and I live with my grams,she's kinda old so I don't feel comfortable talking to her.Please.Someone tell me what to do.I just wanna make things right.For me and him.I don't want to be this person I've become.You guys are all I have.

What do you think about the 9/11 conspiracies and rappers promoting them? I think they are bullcrap.?

Rappers with socialist / communist views like Immortal Technique, Dead Prez, Mos Def always seem to use these conspiracies in their songs. What do you think about it?

How do I overcome this terrible situation?

You seem to have done everything backwards. Your first move would have been to wait until you have someone to be with then scout for houses and work, etc, but since you are where you are now you need to make the best of a bad situation. Join groups with similar interests, do volunteer work and take classes.

Tooth and gum pain, heavy gum bleeding HELP?

Today I woke up fine, then after a couple hours my tooth started getting really sore, especially when I bit down with it. I hadn't eaten anything yet so nothing was stuck in the gum area. I decided that I might floss to see what the issue was. My gum around the tooth started bleeding TERRIBLY, like a full stream of blood that lasted maybe 5 seconds. I have great oral health. I brush twice a day AND floss AND use mouth wash. I also was just at the dentist 4 weeks ago and they said my teeth were perfect. I rinsed with mouth wash and also rinsed with salt water. What is this, why is bleeding so much (not just some red or pink on the floss but a sudden stream), and what can I do to make it stop? My dentist's office is closed until Tuesday. Please help!

I'm 15 and want to look better?

Yes, I'd like to lose weight but for my slow metabolism, losing fat means gaining muscle so I may not lose much. I'd just like to get a flat stomach and slim myself out. I don't really mind losing a bit of my chest cause I have plenty of it (I'm a 36D). I'm not terribly overweight, just about 156lbs. And I'm 5'3". Can you give me some of your best weight/fat loss tips to help me out? My boyfriend says I'm fine (sometimes he uses "sexy", even), but I still don't like my body.

Do you take any responsibility for your break up?

When my wife and I first split up, I put all the blame on her. Now, over the years, I've come to see the mistakes I made in the relationship, and now accept some ownership for the break up as well. There was no infidelity on either part BTW.

Marriage counseling please?

My wife and i have been married for 23 years; we have a 21 year old son who graduated from LSU yesterday (BioChemistry major), and a 16 year old daugher who will be a high school senior next year. My wife and I have probably argued more than the average couple (I guess), but I always thought we would be together forever. I've never believed in divorce when there are children involved, unless there were circumstances such as infidelity, or abuse, or things of that nature. About 5 years ago my in-laws moved to the town where we live, about 15-20 minutes away from our home. Since then the relationship between my wife and I has progressively gotten worse. I place lots of the blame on my mother in law. She has always been able to persuade my wife to do things for her that she didn't want to do; like go to her class reunions, go to funerals, go to weddings, and now, go to the store for her. It was always something I tolerated, but now that she's living near us it happens all the time. She's healthy, she's just a lazy ***. And now my father in law is having health issues, so she is relying on my wife more. My brother in law lives an hour and a half from where we live, and he is never asked to do anything because he has no problem just saying "HELL NO" when he is asked. My wife doesn't know how to tell her mother no, to anything. I few months ago my wife told me that she was thinking we should consider a divorce, but that her mother suggested to her that we should wait until the summer time, when our kids would be done with this school year. Since then we've been to counseling, and I've been as nice as possible. But for some reason my wife is meaner and more ugly to me than ever before. I'm feel like she is in a situation with her mother where she knows her mother wants us to get a divorce, and she doesn't want to tell her mother "NO." Her mother knows that I don't care for her, and that's only because she takes advantage of my wife, and now she does the same thing to our son everytime he's in town. Also, with my father in law's health declining, I wouldn't put it past my mother in law looking for my wife to take care of her if he should die soon; that's how she thinks; she is evil and selfish. Well, I'm at a point now that I can't take anymore of the rudeness and disrespect that my wife dishes out to me everyday. But remember that I don't believe in divorce, and I hate to think what it would do to our kids if we were to divorce. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what can be done here to help us get through this? I've heard of something on the religeous side called Retrouvaille, but I haven't met anyone thats tried it before. Help please.

If you don't believe what Prez Obama says in his speech will it be deemed racist?

It's just that he has said things and they don't happen. Although they did get OBL. But it seems he cannot control certain things, yet he says it will happen.

He was my boyfriend first: Will he take me up on my offer?

I don't mean to be so selfish in the sense that I do want my ex back. He is 37 and I am 29. When I was 16, I befriended his sister. When I was 25 he asked me to marry him and be the mother of his children. We broke up because he is quite fond of transsexuals. I am not prejudice, however I did feel insecure about that and sent off those vibes. We were only a couple for four months. He broke-up with me simply by ignoring me. Sometime before doing so he asked me if I was going to break-up with him. I told him, "I don't know." I happen to like this method of breaking up. I find it is the perfect "clean break" and use it as well when breaking it off with someone. I love this man so much. Aside from his infidelity with what I believe to be a woman the size of a football player, he is a true gentlemen. I can say this for sure because we have known each other for so long. It helps that I am very close to his family. He lives in my neighborhood and we had one of our little rendezvous last night. We discussed how we are both off on weekends. When I got home this morning, I invited him to lunch via text. He hasn't responded. I know how sleepy he was. He was either too tired to respond or needs time to think about it or both. For a while we were only about sex, but lately he has been suggesting we see a movie, go to dinner, have lunch and what not. He knows I am still in love with him and deep down I know he is using me. I have come to terms with the situation, but lately in the last two months I cry after making love with him. It's so weird. I don't mean to get so emotional. I don't think he knows because I try to conceal it by not sobbing, not letting him see or feel my tears, and turning the pillow over if he is not watching. I am not usually the type to sleep with another "woman's" man. Part of me feels that he is "fair game" because he is not married and has no children. He even told me "I'm 37 years old, I haven't had kids for a reason. I don't want any." I don't necessarily want any children with him. I just want to spend the rest of my days with him. I have asked him to Church to pray with me for our sins. He has yet to join me. I realize that he probably wants to spend time with his "g-f" today, but I wonder if he will take me up on my offer to lunch. He knows I have money, and that I will at least offer to pay. He has a really good job, but appreaciates an independent woman. He is very attractive and a weakness on my part. I wish I had the strength to stay away from him. I have even become a little pissy with him and have tried using him just to get the attention of other particular men I'm attracted to. I know how pathetic all this sounds. I am not a mega whore. I want to spend my life with him even if he weren't so damned attractive. I nearly lost him in a motorcycle accident after our break up. During that period I was not in contact with his sister for something of quite a different nature. When he told me about two months ago that's when all the weird crying started. I hope that he will take me back one day.

How to get through this? I'm being ridiculous?

So my fianc� is in submarines, in the navy, and legit works 16 hours everyday 7 days a week. He is never home. He is tired, emotionally detached, and angry. We have been fighting a lot lately, because of stupid reasons, but the underlying problem is I miss him terribly. I miss what we had when we were together, and spent time with each other. He leaves today for two weeks, and I'm besides myself. I know this is stupid because people go through 15 month deployments all the time, but I'm still sad, only because I already never see him and when I do it's brief and distant. I've been crying all day. What can I do? Please no rude remarks! I'm already sad as it is.

Obama is the Best Prez Ever?

Lot of people are now calling him the best U.S president ever for single-handedly finding Osama Bin Laden. I may have to agree with this. He fixed the national debt problem, lowered taxes, and found the 9/11 mastermind. I'll definitely vote for him in 2012. Do you think he's gonna run in 2012 or no?

Guys & maybe girls: its it gross if a girl doesnt shave her legs?

so i am going into 8th grade and i am not allowed to shave my legs till next year =P my leg hair is blackish-brown...and its not TERRIBLY long, just longish. not curly. covers half of my leg (not thighs) i feel so embarrased to wear shorts even though i love them <3 is it gross guys?? should i hide them?

Does your spouse have intimate dreams about other people?

My husband is a habitual sleep cheater. When I watch him sleep I always know when he is sleep cheating when he pitches a huge tent under the covers. At that point I put on my best man voice and whisper in his ear..."ya baby...let me put it in your *ss". Oddly enough sometimes the tent stays pitched even after that. I'm thinking about leaving him.

My computer is terribly low on C:drive space?

Reinstalling operating system is the first choice,then using a registry cleaner is necessary,which can optimize your PC performance in order to free up space in C:drive.l recommend this one for you,Fastwindowstweaker:a href="http://www.fastwindowstweaker.com" rel="nofollow"http://www.fastwindowstweaker.com/a

How should I handle this situation involving my ex?

So about 3 weeks ago my boyfriend decided to end things between us after a 5 month relationship. (which isn't the longest time if you think about it but it still meant a lot to me since I hadn't been in a serious relationship before that for 2 years) It was nice to fall in love again, and things seemed to be going fine, maybe not amazing because we only saw each other once a week or even sometimes twice a week because of our work schedules. And when we did see each other it was always the same thing, either dinner at a restaurant or movies, we only did special things every once in a while, so i guess he eventually started getting bored and just when our relationship was going somewhere he decided that he wanted to be single again, and because he was started school again this september, he also said that he lost his love for me so he had to end things. I was caught off guard because i didn't imagine him to end it so soon. The first 2 days after he broke up with me i kept calling, texting, him and begging for him back, which wasn't the smartest thing to do, because i knew it was only pushing him away further. A week after he left me when I was emotionally intact again, we decided to meet up so that I can express how i felt about everything and for him to say how he felt. Overall it went good but he said that we could be friends and that if anytime i just wanted to hang out he is willing to come see me, but i knew that it wasn't going to work like that. 3 weeks later i've learnt to cope with everything and i haven't talked to him ever since but today i saw his facebook and i saw pictures of him with other girls already, which made my stomach turn, I really was urged to call him but everyone keeps telling me to not talk to him unless he reaches out first, this week is his birthday and everyone is saying to not wish him anything and just completely erase him because talking to him will only drive him away, its been tearing me apart because I miss him terribly and I want him back, but i don't know what to do anymore...

Late summer job 2011!?!?

There are lots of jobs for teenagers online. I used this site to find summer job for my son - jobweb.batcave.net

Messy coworker breakup....any advice would be appreciated?

I'm a eighteen year old girl who is a full time student in university and works part time like many students. About six months ago I began dating a coworker. Things were fantastic at first. He was the sweetest most amazing guy and I thought like any girl that I was blessed to have found him! After around 3 months of dating things really started to change fast and for the worst...first of all he started to get really physical in our relationship...I was very clear to him that I wasn't ready for what he was trying to do and well...you can imagine how frustrated and upset he got at me over time with this. He also began to hang around this other girl at our job who was 3 yrs older than him and 4 yrs older than me quite intensely after getting frustrated with me a few times...as a result out relationship just weakened and weakened until I got fed up....trying to talk to him about the other girl and all the problems in our relationship was horrible and it led to a terribly messy breakup. We have been broken up now for just over a month and things are still incredibly awkward at work. He stares at me constantly when he is working at the same time as me, and has gone out of his way to make working their intolerable at times to say the least. At the time of the break up I told him that I didn't want things to be awkward seeing as we still had to work together...he later sent me an email saying he didn't think we should ever speak at work because it would quote "hurt us more in the end." Im trying so hard to forget about him and our brief 4 month relationship but seeing him all the time at work makes it next to impossible. Quitting or transferring is not an option, and in all fairness I have worked their way longer than him and have a higher position as a supervisor. It was a terrible breakup but I don't hate him. I want to move on and he is making it very difficult in many ways. I know many people say don't ever date a coworker but I broke that rule and now regret it. I was going to try to talk to him about it once but after the email, I cant even bare thinking of attempting it. The other girl by the way, hates me, tells other workers that its no lose because I was never good enough for the guy anyways, and she even spreads nicknames about me like "virgin mary" because I wouldn't be sexually active...how she knows all this information about my relationship I imagine she only gathers from speaking to my ex...whenever I see him or her at work I feel sick and I have not spoken to my ex or her since the breakup yet I continue to get the horrible glares from both of them and my ex still strives to make me jealous in many ways...any advice would be appreciated but please be serious. Thanks.

I am taking my ex girlfriend to family court because she been telling me she gave birth to my child?

My ex girlfriend has been telling me for the whole year of 2010 that she gave birth to my son June 6th. She been sending me countless text messages and she even sent me a picture of the baby and the Ultrasound . During the time she was telling me this I was giving her money ( I know it was stupid to give her money before I seen the baby) . We broke up because of my infidelity and some things I probably should not have said. She even told me she wanted me to sign my rights away.. Recently she been telling me there isn't a child even though I been with her to the gynecologist with her . Some of my family members told me the reason why she is saying there isn't a child is because she wanted to me to stop with the court proceedings .I go to court June 23rd to see if there is a child . Do you think there is a child ?

Is it True Prez Obama Uses a Fake Social Security Number(Starts with a Connecticut #) and Why?

According to private investigators Obama has a SS# reserved for Connecticut between 1977-1979, even though Obama worked at a Baskin Robbins in 1975 in Honolulu. This is the second biggest job Obama had for preparation for the Presidency. :)

Do you take any responsibility for your break up?

When my wife and I first split up, I put all the blame on her. Now, over the years, I've come to see the mistakes I made in the relationship, and now accept some ownership for the break up as well. There was no infidelity on either part BTW.

Is there a double standard ?

With Republicans in regards to infidelity both Newt and John Edwards cheated on caner stricken spouses and Edwards is fighting to stay out of jail and to restore his good nan but Newt gets to run for president and no ones seems to care about his infidelity at all

My wife told me she isn't in love with me any more?

This is going to be long. I have to be 100% honest to get the best answers. My wife and I have been together for 9 yrs. come Sept. She was 20 and I was 23 it started as a one night stand that kept growing. After 6 months we move in together. By then her birthday had passed and we moved into our first place together. We go into fights and about a year later we moved to our second place. I broke up with her when she was 23 after her insecurities had her calling me upset when I was at work. She was lonely, didn't like to go out, and didn't work. I made her move back in with her dad. That lasted for about 3 months before we got back together. At this time I had developed a porn addiction. That of which started about 6 months before I broke up with her. The porn addiction was not due to lack of sex. So we had about 5 big fights about the porn and then one day she said, "I don't care about you looking at porn anymore." More recently she told me she had to she out the pain. So we get over my porn addiction and life moves on. Year 5.5 we were happier and getting along very well. We decide that we would like to have a child. Not trying but not being careful about it. Well it happened about 6 months after we decide that. Next thing you know we get married, probably for the wrong reasons, aka. Health insurance. Now I really f*cked up. I had began what I thought was an innocent text sex relationship. Now to be CLEAR, the text msgs we only sexual never were emotional nor did it lead to infidelity. She had a hunch but I always denied. This text sex began before her pregnancy and lasted for about 10 months. When she found out it was already in the past, about 2 months. The reason I stopped was after our child was born I knew that what I was doing was terribly wrong. That all these fantasies I should have been sharing with her. This was around year 6. We stayed together because of our child and I wanted to be with her. It took a lot of talking before she told me she forgave me. She also told me that my trust had to be earned. I would say that it took a year and a half before she was over it. Well fast forward to present. My father passed on June 4. We grieved together and with my mother. Well now I was wondering what she's been doing on her phone. It turns out she got a chat app and was talking to men. I try to think nothing of it and carry on grieving with my mother. Well last Sunday, Fathers Day, I came home from work an she is trying to tell me something bu can't spit it out. I told her that the only way we can address whats on her mind is to talk about it. Man I wish I would have waited for Monday. Her words were, "I think that there is someone out there that is going to be better for you." I ask her what she really meant and it went on to, I don't think I am in love with you anymore. Theres no mystery between us. I have feelings for other people and I don't think I should have to deny those feelings. And that I have never in the 9 years together have I made her feel like she was special. I don't show her affection. She doesn't have anything for her self. No job, money or car. I told her I do truly love her and that I will learn how to how her my love in more ways. She has heard this before and she told me she'll give me one final chance to show my love to her. But she also adds that she doesn't think that her feelings for other men will ever stop and that if she does have those feelings she will act on them. She is looking for a job and we still sleep in the same bed. I don't wantto lose her to her self. I can't stop her from doing what she wants. What in the h*ll do I do? I read threads and forums and most say that I need to leave her alone and let her do he thing while trying to improve myself while moving forward. I can do that but I don't think that will be enough. Please give me some advice. I will answer any questions ASAP. Thank you!

Which character of mine should represent...?

Samuel should get earth. Earth seems more relaxed than air to me and that describes Samuel better than Ethan from what I can tell. Earth is always there like their follower Samuel

Is Obama the president?

I heard on the news like last month that Obama was killed by seal team 6. Did those seals get in trouble? Why would they assassinate the prez? And what was Barack Obama doing in afghan?

Do you have to be a dark or latino Democrat to avoid ridicule and constant attention if you run for Prez?

Nope. There's been a few of White Democrats in our history if you haven't noticed. You have to be white in order to run for president as a republican and actually win a nomination??? That my friend has been answered by history, Just guess who was the last peron not white to win a nomination? At least one nomination by ONE state??? Frederick Douglass himself. Annnnnd he never won the party nomination by the way. As you can tell. Do you have to be white republican to win a nomination to run for president as a republican. Yes. Just thought I'd let you know. :)

What are some reasons guys want their girls back even after the guy was the one to break things off?

I'm starting on a novel about a love story (original I know haha) and I have the basic plot line and characters figured out. In the story, Sasha and Maxine first meet in a chemistry class. Sasha's older sister is best friends with Maxine's older sister but Sasha and Maxine have never actually talked to each other. But then, Maxine catches Sasha's eye just before the end of the school year. She's wary of starting a relationship because she's going to college in another state come fall but Sasha is still in High school, but he manages to change her mind, and they start an amazing relationship. Then Maxine decides to transfer to a school in her home state, but only a few months after returning, Sasha suddenly doesn't want a relationship with her anymore (not because of infidelity or anything like that--he just suddenly changes). Maxine begs and pleads for him back because she never expected to fall so deeply in love with somebody only for them to suddenly change their mind. In my story, I'm planning to go into detail about their time apart and how it is for both of them, but eventually have Sasha change his mind about breaking up with Maxine and want her back. My only problem is, since I'm a girl, I don't know the kinds of things that would make a guy want the girl he broke up with back. I know stuff like this happens, I just don't know why. As a girl, it's hard to imagine why a guy would want someone back if he dumped her in the first place. Does anyone have realistic instances of this happening and why it did or does happen? I want this story to be as believable as possible and not have to write it guessing whether I'm correctly thinking like a guy. Thanks in advance!

He sent a divorce text message???

3 years ago I found out my husband had been cheating since the start of our relationship so I left him for a few months, and then he sent me a text telling me that he wanted a divorce. He never filed so a few weeks after the text we decided to start over and because I didn’t trust him because of past infidelities we decided to gradually get back together and work on us, but during this time he still had “friends”. This pushed me further away and made me not trust him even more so we separated AGAIN and again he sent me a text saying that he wanted a divorce. At this point I was tired of crying all the time and wondering what I did wrong and I didn’t trust him so I began to move on with my life and about 5 months down the road I moved back to my home city and reconnected with a childhood friend who I had always had a crush on and vice versa, long story short me and my new friend began to date and grew closer (we never had sex or kissed because legally I was still married). Just when I was happy again my husband called me and says he didn’t file for the divorce yet because he still loves me and wants to make the marriage work. I believe in marriage so when I said my vows I meant them so I decided to give it another shot. I stopped talking to my friend and like a gentleman he respected my decision. It’s been 7 months since I’ve been back with my husband and things have been a bit better this time but the roles are reversed I am the one that no longer wants to be with him I still don’t trust him and he has yet to seriously apologize he just pretends like he did nothing wrong and we should just leave it in the past. I find myself wondering about what if I would have stayed with my friend they are so different and honestly I don’t want this marriage. Would it be low of me to text him and tell him “I WANT A DIVORCE”

Why are some saying Prez Obama is responsible for high gas prices hasn't he done everything he could?

He has done everything he could to drive the price higher, sell our leases off to Brazil and is now trying to shut down TX oil wells because of a LIZARD...this man hates America and is trying to destroy her in everyway he can and is succeeding.

How can we fix financial infidelity to our partners?

Financial infidelity resulted from looking for other options to resolve primary financial troubles esp for the benefit of the family.

I'm a college girl and I feel left out?

I met really great people in my first year at my university and I simply love it. I became good friends with three girls and we sort of became a group. In the group I became really close friends with one of the girls. I just felt like I could tell this girl anything and that she would understand me. The other two girls in the group became close friends too and that was how no one really felt left out. However, at the end of the first year of college my close friend and my other friend sort of became more close friends (which is fine to me). By doing this though, they started to exclude me in conversations and other things. I don't know...Is it so wrong to just feel terribly sad about feeling left out? And about feeling like I've lost the relationship I had with my close friend?

Could stress/depression contribute to a low sex drive...my fiance will not have sex with me?

Go to counseling. Depression is a serious medical condition. Get yourself some toys while you work out your issues.

Am I touching myself right?

Ok as crazy as this sounds I have seen porn but iv never really fingered myself until my bf talked me into doing it and I finger myself like I used to see in the porn videos and I came but its more like I'm peeing and i. Don't really get a pleasure feeling from it it just feels like I had to pee and after I came I didn't have to pee I'm new at this so it's all like okkk am I doing this right??? I just don't want for him to finger me and me *** and it be like totally weird cuz there's something terribly wrong with me please help Im really freaking out NO RUDE COMENTS PLEASE

Internet + infidelity = easy?

yes for some (mainly women, most cheating stories have been that way) and no, some of the things people do on the internet I just don't see as cheating.. I'm sorry.

Is Prez. Obama pro homosexual b/cuz he is a practic'g Homosexual himself?

Could it be that America's 1st black President will not address historically black issues as they relate to racial inequality because he wants to forward the homosexual agenda because he is a part of the black Boule' & that he is also a practicing Homosexual himself?

Do i sound ugly? im an insecure teen girl help??!!?

ok im 15 and i have pale skin im not fat but im gaining weight :( i have a round face with big dark round hazel eyes freckles and my face gets so red easily and its terribly ugly ....i run in track so its evwen worse ...the thing i hate most is my thin lips my big round face and my reddness i dont want to wear makeup i just want to be confident with my self and my appearance especially my face i keep comparing myself to this one girl who i think is gorgous please help people say im beautiful but i dont beleive it!

Help me please ?! I want to change this ?

I really want a boyfriend . I've been feeling extremely lonely , but the thing is I'm extremely picky. I can't help the way I am. I don't believe I should be , but I do have standards . Ive had 2 previous relationships , but ended terribly. I suppose I have trust issues. What should I do to help getting a boyfriend and not being so picky.

A question for Jehovah's witnesses?

He is taking very serious the bible counsel to be careful about the caliber of associations and to marry only in the Lord.1 Corinthians 15: 33 and 7: 39

How come Ann Coulter is so hot on Chris Christy to run for prez?

Greg on Red Eye just asked her who won in the Republican debate the other night and she said he did and he wasn't even there.

What's your opinion on marriage/serious dating & pro athletes?

My sister has been dating a pro baseball player for almost 4 years... She travels and stays with him during the season... He seems to really care about her but I'm beginning to wonder if she is wasting her time... I can't really tell if his feelings for her are sincere, and I am starting to believe that he just wants someone around so he won't be coming home to a lonely house after a tough game... he's a nice guy and they get along...and, i know that marriage is important to her and I also know that it doesn't take 4 years to decide if you want to marry the person...and they are both definitely at a marrying age... this is why I think she may be wasting her time with him. bc i know i would not stick around for that long if marriage was important to me. On top of that, he is a good looking pro athlete so him being completely loyal to her is very unlikely I think...and i want whoever she marries to be devoted and good to her...i haven't talked to her about this bc i dont want to hurt her feelings...the divorce rate for pro athletes is 60-80%...infidelity being the main cause...so what do you guys think?

Obama is the Best Prez Ever?

He found bin Laden, fixed the national debt problem, lowered housing prices, lowered gas prices, and traveled abroad to the seventh dimensional typicality. Is he the best president ever? I'm gonna vote for him in 2012. I doubt he's gonna run in 2012 though :(. Are you?

Will my girlfriend take me back?

there has been infidelities..one that she just told me about because we broke up. then i was forced to tell her what i had done in the past, and she started crying hard and the next morning she was listening to me ..everyting i had to say. and kept denying our love would ever work. is there a chance we will get back together and restore order?

Why Do Republicans attack the Prez for the cost of Gas, Then defend the 50 billion in subsidies they get?

The Oil Industry receives about 50 Billion dollars every year... From the United States. The Largest Portions go to the biggest companies.. Like Exxon Mobile. Who profited 12 Bllion this year .. Profits. Not before expenses. To put this into perspective. The Government of Argentina doesn't even use 40 Billion Dollars in 1 year. And they Have universal Health Coverage !!!. Subsidies are in place to keep gas affordable for Citizens. Republicans relentlessly attacked the president for the spike in gas prices. They said it was his fault. The president wants to end the 50 Billion a year going to Big oil because they have not done a good job keeping prices low for American's. Republicans are blocking the president from doing that. Why or how can the Republicans justify this decision? If we can't afford the 700 Million that goes to Pay for heating and Gas for Families in Poverty anymore. How can we afford to give Subidies to the tune of 50 Billion away , when they are making Record Breaking profits? It just amazes me how the GOP Says the President is so Anti Business, But the GOP Refuses to take the Training wheels off the Biggest earners. And wants to treat them like they need the government to survive. Then turns and attacks the president when he says they should be able to manage without government training wheels. It's absurd. That's pretty astonishing. I would rather my tax dollars go to a poor family than to some company that makes more in 1 hour than I will make in my entire life.

Marriage has failed. Now what? I believe marriage has failed and never worked anyway .......?

Divorce rates skyrocketing when no fault divorce was invented is proof marriage was a social construct. You are completely right, and I agree with you.

How long does it take to get Herpes results from Planned Parenthood?

Ever since i had sex with my girlfriend,yeah i used a condom, i havent been feeling terribly ill but, first off my appetite has been goin and my stomach doesnt hurt but it doesnt feel the same way, hard to describe, but yeah im just a little worried :P

Broken nose&breaking it?

i broke my nose when i was young wrestling around with my father. it healed with a result of a big noticable bump in the bridge of my nose. i really cant stand it and it kills my confidence terribly. im only 15 and i dont have the money for rhinoplasty. im considering rebraking it myself and then bandaging it so it heals straight. i know this will be extremely painful but it will be worth it. does anyone have any suggestions on how to break it carefully? easy points here people, and please be nice.

What does it tell you, when Obama was the first prez to be sworn in in private.?

He was sworn in in private because he didn't want to use a bible. He wanted to use a Quran. That what it tells me. Either that or the swearing in in public was a coloring book not a bible. See, he would melt if he touches a bible. Hence the "mistake" and the need to do it again.

How do you use INFIDELITY in a sentence?

Infidelity means being unfaithful to a spouse or sexual partner. The sentence "She committed infidelity on me" is grammatically incorrect. Better choice: "I got tired of her infidelity." or "Her infidelity destroyed my trust in her."

Obedient Wives Club: infidelity and prostitution stemmed from a lack of belief in God and a failure of women?

The group was set up by a group of muslim women - of course they're going to believe that everything is a woman's fault, they've been brainwashed since birth to believe it.

We just ended our relationship?

I have mixed emotions, I dunno how I'm going to deal with it. We had been dating for 10months and I can't have what I want. She broke up with me not because she wanted but because she felt she had to is what she told me. I want her to be happy but Im terribly afraid of not finding someone, cause I think guys are the chasers and I'm not really a chaser and girls aren't chasers so basically I have no one to get me. And guys are always after her and I hope she find someone. What should I do? Should I get her back? But I don't think I'm ready for a serious relationship yet I want her

How do I know if he likes me?

Flirt with him and if more things happen then I think he does but for me it is hard to tell if he likes you from what you said.

Did Trump decide not to run for prez because he was roasted badly by Obama?

No, I don't believe he was ever really going to go through with it, I'm sure it was more of a publicity and ratings stunt than anything. So if that's the case, it's Obama who was owned.

Republicans may nominate an African-American for Prez, will AA's betray thier heritage and vote for a Kenyan?

That's the stupiest thing I have ever heard in my life. You shouldn't be voting for a president because of his race but rather for his polocies and political ideology

Sexless marriage... should I worry about him cheating?

We have been together for 10 years, married for 9. We have a blended family with several kids of all ages. We have had our share of fights, ups and downs, and discussed breaking up over the years mostly instigated by me. But I never pulled the trigger because of lack of money and instability. So now for the past year, his "libido" has been very low and for the recent six months almost non-existent. I worry that he is not attracted to me, which he denies. He does not show the typical signs of infidelity. Super secretive, out a lot, improving himself physically, etc., But I can't help but think that having sex once every 5 months or less is ok with him. He takes meds which interfere with his ability to perform sometimes and he complains that he hates to start and disappoint me but he doesn't even try. I am completely shut down and out. Sex has never been high on my priority list but at this point I am sad, feel rejected, a little mad that he refuses to ask a doctor for help, and scared maybe he is going elsewhere. Any ideas? Serious replies only please, thx.

American royalty: JFK was notorious for his infidelity but did Jackie ever have affairs when married?

No,she did not.Some unscrupulous authors,out only to make a dollar,may have claimed that she did,but they have absolutely no proof.Jackie was hard to get before she married,stayed faithful to Jack during their marriage.She may have had dalliances during her widowhood,but not one person has ever come forward to say that he was the one.Jackie's private life was private.

Doesn't birth control/contraception lead to promiscuity and infidelity in marriages?

Birth control says , "my sexuality is a disease that needs medication.". This can cause disrespect for human dignity and self worth. When human dignity and self worth are attacked, this allows a large number of diviences into lives.

I,ve lost the most important person in my life and I,m devastated, looking for advice from mature women.?

I am also not a mature woman, but I can say from experiece that alcohol changes people. I was raised by a good family, and when I drink, I go from being a nice, well behaved reserved girl into a sex crazed, belligerent, careless mess. I didnt believe I was as bad as I was til I seen pictures and videos of myself. One night I got so bad I was forcibly removed from a pub and have not been allowed back. Alcohol affects people in different ways. Im not sure how to offer advice on repairing your relationship with your ex girlfriend- all I can say is that everything happens for a reason, and chances are she is probably missing you as much as you miss her. Everyone makes mistakes and it sounds like what you did was way out of character and something that you deeply regret- surely she can see this? Is there a mutual friend you can possibly talk to about this? Other than that Im not sure as to how I can advise your next step- I hope she gives you another chance. Hope this helps :)

Conservatives, would you be terribly offended, if I were to wish you a happy 4th of July?

As a Progressive, we may disagree on Politics, but we are fellow countrymen, and therefore should be able to celebrate the birth of this country on one accord.

Should i follow my dreams or fight for my relationship?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years, and for awhile we've been extremely shakey. He has an infidelity problem and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want nothing more than to have him to myself and live happily ever after. However I was accepted to Fisk University in Tennessee, and we live in California. I'm waiting to see if they gave me the full scholarship. And if they did I'm going. But a part of me wants to put off my dreams and just go to to a school in California so we can be together. I'm scared that if I leave he may move on indefinitely,and ill never get over him. However maybe if I do go he will realize what he had with me and when I get back things will be better. I know its stupid to risk my future but I love him and I really want to be with him forever. What do I do? Will my absence make his heart grow fonder? Or will it make me grow stronger and help me to move on? Please answer nicely.

I don't want kids, but I don't give a crap about the childfree movement...?

Everyone's entitled to their own opinions. It's up to you if you let it agitate you. No matter how worked up you get about someone else's opinions, they're still gonna be like that. So just ignore it.

I want to be with her, but I don't know what the right thing to do is. What should I do?

I've been with this girl on and off for 2 years now. I've grown to like her a lot, maybe I just got accustomed to her. Things were falling apart terribly the last 6 months of our relationship, so we decided to take a break to do self searching, maybe date other people and see what we really want, and meanwhile we would remain friends. Obviously it was very hard to remain just friends, it was unhealthy because there was sexual tension constantly there. So we decided not to talk to each other. And now, 2 months later she sends me a random text saying she wants to get together for coffee and catch up on things. I was OK with it, I thought maybe this is a good test to see where our feelings are for each other. We met up for coffee, talked things out and both agreed that we had each other in our minds this whole time we were apart. But I'm not so sure I'm the right person for her, I don't know if I can make her happy. I can honestly say I love her, and I want her to be happy, even if it means being her best friend. So my question is: Should I buy the new Call of Duty for PS3 when it comes out? Ten points and five stars to best answer.

Will barack hussein obama be really re-elected by Americans?

I will vote for him, thanks to our Command in Chief, the SEALS nailed osama. If it wasn't for him these seals would have been tied to the back of the pickup trucks, racing around paki streets, like what happened in Somalia 1993

Why don't I feel comfortable reading E Books?

I love books, but only when I can place it on my lap (don't confuse with laptop). I have a great collection of terribly under-utilized E Books because even with utmost zeal to start with I can barely cover a couple of pages before I start loosing interest with continuous scrolling and stuffs like that. Please help. I am in desperate need of your expert opinion.

If China and the US have a conventional war, hundreds of American fighter pilots would be killed and the prez?

I don't know how Hillary or Walmart impacted China's military technology, but it is unlikely they can deliver a nuclear warhead the distance required to reach USA. They can't even make descent dog food or baby formula. Economic domination is the future we should be worried about.

Why am I getting these pains in my head?

For a few weeks now I get these terribly painful headaches also 4-5 times a day my vision goes blury and it's impossible for me to see. And when I'm writting something down it's like my brain doesn't controll my eyes they like keep moving, and the other week my ear was bleeding and my legs keep going numb and my head gets heavy and my balance isn't so good some of the time, what could be wrong with me, please help! Thanks in advance x

What would happen to Prez Obama and Eric Holder if Congress finds that their gun sting didn't work in Mexico?

Seems to me it is business as usual for Obama, we have said all long he is doing whatever it takes to bring down this nation !

I need some friend advice, someone please help, this has really taken over my life?

Tell him everything you just said right now. Bring back the memories to him and make him realise that he needs you more than his xbox. Tell him you can help him and that you dont care bout his acne or anything. Listen, write him and email or a letter and post it at his house. Or go into the house and even if he doesnt open the door, yell from outside. Make him realise you DO CARE !

Calling after 2nd interview?

Is it appropriate to call a few days after ( I interviewed Tuesday) the second interview to find out if a decision has been made? If so, who do I speak to? HR Lady(1st interview) or Vice Prez (2nd interview)?

Since everyone is mad at the Democrats or Republicans and things ain't good how about Ron Paul?

Yea i know end of the world, but hey at least when he wanted to audit the FED over 300 fellow Congressmen signed on and he would bring the troops back, although I know Prez Obama said he would immediately bring 10,000 by the end of next year. Hey folks lets try something else.

Republicans: what will you do when your party goes extinct next year?

After Obama's crushing presidential victory next year (really with the Republican prez candidate field on life support I dont see any other outcome) and the Democrats retaking Congress, theres no doubt that the Republican Party as an institution will be defunct. What will you do then Repubs?

I need help with my music class! Please help!!?

I have to write a blog about a motet called Ave Maria, by Josquin des Prez, and I have to write about the musical characteristics observed while listening to the song, use correct music terminology, and write about my own feelings about the music, only, I'm not sure what to write! Please help!

I need help about deciding which character in my book...?

Ethan earth, Samuel air. Earth is a strong, solid element. I just can't see a follower having that element. Also it seems to fit better than air. Air is more lucid, care free. I can't see a "bad boy" possessing that element.

Which novel should I pursue?

I like four the besy because I like the kind of stories where its like the magic of fate and stuff, basically where the people reading will be left thinkin "tht could happen in real life!" or other ppl could cud say its coincidence. Its gives the story a mysterious twist!

Can anyone tell me when Ronald Reagan was diagnosed with alzheimers ?

I read an article where reagans son said " he was actually diagnosed in late 1985" true ? Than it means the medication he would take at night would literally knock him out, sounds like An actor playing prez then

Should I be worried I'm bleeding too much?

I am 15, have irregular periods. I put a tampon in at 9:45 this morning after discovering i leaked terribly through my pj's/blankets over the night even though i was wearing a night pad. I took the tampon just 3 hours later because it was leaking and it was all used up. is 3 hours unusually short? should i be worried? it's never been this heavy really

First I'm using my sisters account two I need girl help?

Hi my name is Aaron. There is a girl that I can't tell if she me. I'm Aaron she calls me Ron Ron. She wrote this on my math folder after taking it in a flirty way next I run for class prez. She makes me a poster saying vote for Ron Ron and when I give my speach she yells go Ron Ron. She's really nice and talks to me very gentily except wen she us with her bff. Generally she is loud. We have multiple inside jokes and she's freaking hot. One day i go hunting niw the next day I'm back at school like my wife she asks where were u yesterday and I sed hunting. the other day she gave me a heart symbol with her hands and everytime I'm by her we both " ignore eachother " and blush. One time we were doing a marching band thing and it is spossed to show 8 th graders marching band and how it's cool. She drags me around them main time she talks like a baby and keeps treating her baritone like her baby being who I am I carry her stand and talk to her the majority of the time. When she was asked why she wasn't with her friends she replies I'd rather be here. Waiting for the homecoming parade we hung outside and listened to her iPod we were standing around in social studies waiting for new seats she leaves her bff and comes over by me. One problem with this she strait up sed she liked a different kid and they kissed which is a big deal in my small town. I really like her so am I blowing things out of preportions or does she like me? I need help!!!!!!!

Will my girlfriend take me back?

there has been infidelities..one that she just told me about because we broke up. then i was forced to tell her what i had done in the past, and she started crying hard and the next morning she was listening to me ..everyting i had to say. and kept denying our love would ever work. is there a chance we will get back together and restore order? she says to never call her, text her, or stop by her house. will she calm down and talk to me eventually? she says its over now but i know she loves me..i dont know what to do .

What else can i do to get over her?

well ive listened to suggestions on here and its helped. Well its been 11 days since my girl friend broke up with me. I havent heard from her since thursday. I dont expect i will. I need something to help clear my mind up. I miss her terribly. Like ive never missed anyone else. It hurts. I know ill get some smart remarks as usual lol...but this seems to help. If we're not going to work this out i need to get over it

Should I take him back?

this wasn't a good relationship to start with. What makes you think it'll be any different now especially when you don't even love him anymore? Give it up. You'll meet a guy that you won't have to ask anyone about. He'll treat you right and he'll make you feel good and neither you will have any desire to cheat. That's what you need, not some childish on again off again relationship. You need a real man who knows how to treat a woman.

I'm having issues trusting my gf?

Some time ago, she confessed to flirting w/ another guy (by eye contact only) and apologized to me for doing so. She explained that the reason she did this was b/c she had a need that wasn't being met by me and she went to get that somewhere else. I forgave her and we moved on. Recently, she was emotionally distraught and told me she needed to talk to her ex-bf b/c only he could see the sadness inside her. Imagining my woman emotionally confessing to her ex-bf because of her belief that he has the ability to see something in her whereas I do not, tempts me to fear infidelity. Why can't she be emotionally competent enough to handle whatever she needs to handle in a way that doesn't compromise our relationship? I walk around fearing the next "creative" way my gf will seek to solve her emotional issues, how far her next emotional currents will take her beyond the bounds of our relationship, and the inevitable damage to my trust in her emotional integrity, and by extension, my trust in her. She didn't actually go through with the meeting w/ her ex-bf and later apologized to me for even considering it, but I'm still worried. I no longer trust this woman.

Do you agree with Rep Franks that we should not be the anchor for global security?

I think America should stick with ensuring enough peace for people to do business and that's it. No more nation building and if you attack us, we kill your leaders.

How do you know when you're in love?

its a very broad question i know... im only 17...and its a tough age as it is, to find someone who makes life worth living. and being gay, makes it even harder to find that person. i know, it sounds ridiculous coming from a teenager.. talking about being in love when their relationship has not been tested by real world, every day struggles.. its just...we have been through infidelity. we have been there for each other when the other was sick. he's been here for me when i needed someone when i was coming out. we cry together. laugh together. think the world of one another. im proud of him. i think he is the most beautiful person i've ever seen. inside and out. i love him for who he is, not whats on the outside. im proud of his accomplishments. his goals. i'd do anything, just to see his dreams come true. we aren't like most teenage couples, when we have a problem.. we take time, sit down, and talk them out. we know what issues are worth arguing over and which are insignificant and need to be settled. no one, and i mean no one, will ever know how much i truly love him... im just dying for someone to recognize true love and not see it as an insignificant teenage relationship. we dont talk about marriage and kids.. we are very realistic when it comes to the reality of our relationship. we both adore one another and would go far distances for each other... its like im meeting him for the first time when i see him each day.. the butterflies in my stomach.. my heart pounding.. my hands get clammy.. ive been with him for a little over 6 months but ive known him for a year..he is such a blessing and i thank god for him each and every day. i have listed just a few things that explain the love i have for my boyfriend... but i'd like some input to... how do know when you're in love...personal experiences are most appreciated =).. thank you!

Palin for Prez...................?

She wants to cut taxes, cut the federal budget, lower the debt ceiling and drill for oil. Obama is doing the opposite, so who would be a better president?

When will someone ask me on a date?

Nothing's wrong with you! I remember how I used to focus on this stuff all the time, but I realized that I missed out on making guy friends. When you're around guys, try not to worry or think about that stuff, just talk to them, just do it!! It may take a while to get used to opening up to guys, but eventually you'll get there, and it won't feel awkward. Being friends is the basis of a relationship. Don't be afraid to say what's on your mind! Give them a chance to hear what you have to say, who you are. Eventually, when the time is right, it'll just happen. You might have a "thing," as we call it, with a guy, and he'll ask you out! It'll hit you when you least expect it! Hope this helped!

I don't think it's possible for me to hurt any more than I do now... Help?

Well, you really overdid it today didn't you. I think that the combination of the 30 pound backpack (which gave you an extreme workout) along with the whipping around on the rides, really beat you up today. There are some soaks at the store (Walmart) that are for joint pain. I would take a nice warm or hot bath and just soak yourself. You will be even more soar tomorrow if you can even believe that. For your feet the soak should help with that too but you can get a zip lock bag n fill it with ice and wrap it in a towel and put it on the floor and put your feet on it. I know that you are feeling bad but I think you just had an extreme workout for the day. Hope you feel better soon. You probably lost like 5 pounds today!!!

Really bad road rash? ?

I fell on my longboard yesterday on the road , I put my foot down to push it and my foot slid and scraped my entire leg up on my knee about half way down my shin and on the whole top of my foot. It didnt ating that bad after , then I got home about an hour later washed it out put neosporin on and bandages, at night they fell off then when I went to sleep I couldnt sleep at all. Terrible stinging and pain. Today it hurts sooo bad. my legs cant stop shaking and it is intense pain. Its red all around it about two inches thick around. I put neosporin and bandages on just barely and the pain is so bad I cant walk im crying and cant move. It might sound exagerated but it honestly hurts terribly. The color of most of the skin is dark red but not bleeding. Is there anything I can do to help it??? Please!!!!! Thank you

What will be obamas response after Bibi smacked his middle east peace plan down?

Bibi just demonstrated what non-leftiest know about obama, he is a weakling, a lightweight, a man child. Israel will never walk into the sea, like the obama plan would have them do. Bibi exposed obama as the fool he is, I know I'm repeating myself but it is worth it. obama is funding this 'arab spring' event. In which control of key middle east countries could go to terrorist organizations. Why would any sane person negotiate with someone who is actively trying to kill them. Bibi seems to understand that Israel does not have a friend in the U.S. with prez obama.

I want to be with her, but I don't know what the right thing to do is. What should I do?

I've been with this girl on and off for 2 years now. I've grown to like her a lot, maybe I just got accustomed to her. Things were falling apart terribly the last 6 months of our relationship, so we decided to take a break to do self searching, maybe date other people and see what we really want, and meanwhile we would remain friends. Obviously it was very hard to remain just friends, it was unhealthy because there was sexual tension constantly there. So we decided not to talk to each other. And now, 2 months later she sends me a random text saying she wants to get together for coffee and catch up on things. I was OK with it, I thought maybe this is a good test to see where our feelings are for each other. We met up for coffee, talked things out and both agreed that we had each other in our minds this whole time we were apart. But I'm not so sure I'm the right person for her, I don't know if I can make her happy. I can honestly say I love her, and I want her to be happy, even if it means being her best friend. So my question is: Should I buy the new Call of Duty for PS3 when it comes out? Ten points and five stars to best answer.

What is up with these male politicians and their infidelity?

Well the female politicians are good at keeping their affairs a secret. I mean right now if we ran paternity tests on every politicians child I bet we'd lean quite a few senators and congressmen have cheating wives.

Infidelity while pregnant ?

Talk to him about it but try not to stress/get upset Its really not good for the baby. But you could also tell him that if he wants to flirt with other girls then he shouldn't be in a relationship/want to have a child. He needs to get his priorities straight. You and yalls kids should come first before anything... If he doesn't think that then something's wrong. At least he's not actually doing anything but seriously... Y'all should come first to him and if you don't then you need a new man. Good luck and congrats on your lil one! Hope things get better

Lump on my dogs upper front leg?

My dog has suddenly developed an odd looking lump on the top of her front right leg. It's odd because it actually looks like a piece of sweetcorn stuck to her. However it is firmly attached to her leg and around the area it is very hard. It doesn't seem to bother her. I haven't seen her lick it or bite it or wine about it so Im not terribly worried. Just need to know if I should be. My dog is only two years old and she is a Labrador cocker spaniel cross and is considered a small dog.

How do people fall out of love with each other when infidelity is NOT involved?

Just curious. If neither spouse is cheating in the relationship, but they still can't make it work- Is it money trouble, family trouble, ect?

I just got glasses thursday?

When you first get glasses everything looks odd. Feeling dizzy and the idea things aren't quite right is quite common even for someone with a new perscription who has worn glasses before. You have to wear the glasses for 2/3 days without constantly taking them on/off to adjust. If after 3 days you are still having problems then go back to the eye doctor. You can't however hurt yourself wearing glasses even if the perscription is very wrong. Just be careful with things that need balance until you have adjusted.There is no need to worry or be scared that anything is wrong.

Estefan Du Prez Is this an american name?

if not , in which country does this name exist???????????/?/?? or where is this name from?>/???????????????????????

Jon Stewart decimated FOX News again last night, when will FOX stop taking on a smarter and stronger opponents?

It's looking pretty bad for them to be Bit**h Slapped by a Comedian again. And having to go back to Katrina to find just ONE single incident of them criticizing a Republican action is just sad. Terribly, terribly sad, pathetic really, gormless.

With a Dem Prez & a Dem senate,why do libs seem to care more about what REPS think about CONTINUED U.S.?

involvement in 3 wars & disturbing interventions the country sticks its nose in around the world? [as well as current domestic policies?]

Does the Catholic Church still thinks AIDS is just punishment for infidelity?

It still opposes the use of condoms, even though it does not oppose the use of surgical gloves by doctors. What is the difference between a fiver fingered glove and a one fingered glove?

How SAD do you think all the comedians are that DONALD TRUMP dumped his addle-brained plan to run for Prez?

Even though he would have made a HORRIBLE COMMANDER IN CHIEF....I am sorry that we will miss the months and months of GREAT JOKES AT HIS EXPENSE!!! What about you?

Are lovers more closer than husbands?

Hi, I'm a married mom (38 years old), my friend (also married mom in the same age) fall in the infidelity with a guy... She did with him what she never ever did and can't do with her husband... I don't want to talk about those dirty acts she did, but I told my cousin about her and she told my that she also know a woman did the same thing (she gave her lover more and more than she can gave to her husband)... Some people say: "Women always are more sexual with their lovers then their husbands"... Is that true?

Engagement ring.. hmmm.. pond or not to pond?

so.. I recently broke up with my fiance of 4 years due to infidelity. I still have my engagement ring and am debating whether I should pond it or not? Please help!

SAT II's for Georgetown University?

The school requires all scores to be sent and the subject tests are strongly recommended. If i took more than 3 subject tests do I send more than 3? I did terribly on one of them, but very well on the other 3. Is it better to send all of them including the bad score or not send them at all?

1996 Chrysler sebring convertible Stalls and rpms surge, PLEASE help?

Yea sounds like you have a few problems if I read that correctly, leave the car running on a flat spot, check the dipstick for tranny fluid should be to the right of the engine bay on your specific car, make sure to pull it out wipe and dip it, has to be at the second dot, it would only be doing that if the fluid is unreasonably low, if its not low and its full of fluid, your gear are probably starting to slip, high rpms while going a decent amount of speed is a sign of tranny failing, so is revving high before it goes, usually it bangs when it kicks in, if everything is banging a lot and making the interior of the car shake obnoxiously it could be the motor mounts, before you do ANY maintenance done and waste your money, get it diagnosed by a trusted friend that knows a lot about cars, when something is wrong with a car and you tell the mechanic to just FIX IT and you say you don't know what it is or much about cars they see jackpot and rip you off, so find someone who won't charge you to diagnose the problem and give you a quote, another good tip if your using a mechanic shop to fix it, tell them you'll buy the parts and bring them in, mechanics buy the cheapest brand, lowest quality part and charge you like they bought the best one, I'm not stereotyping mechanics, because i am one lol and i know all the ripping off that goes on, and honestly if any repair cost over $1000, i'd say scrap it, you get like $400 to junkyard a car depending on how much scrap they get out of it and model/make, because spending $1000 or more on a car that is 15 years old is just a terrible investment, for example, take the $400 and the $1000 that "say" it costs to fix your car, give or take a few hundred bucks and you get a decent reliable high 90s early 2000's 4 cylinder car, just trying to help people out who don't know much about cars, cause everyone gets ripped off these days it sucks, they should make automotive a mandatory class in middle/highschool cause everyone needs to drive and everyones car is gunna break some day, instead of them getting ripped off they'll have knowledge of what wrong atleast, ok i'm done preaching, good luck!

Catechism of the Catholic Church reference 1606 explanation?

Every man experiences evil around him and within himself. This experience makes itself felt in the relationships between man and woman. Their union has always been threatened by discord, a spirit of domination, infidelity, jealousy, and conflicts that can escalate into hatred and separation. This disorder can manifest itself more or less acutely, and can be more or less overcome according to the circumstances of cultures, eras, and individuals, but it does seem to have a universal character.

My father suffering from Pneumonia has patches still persisting in the upper lobe of his left lungs ?

My father is 76 yrs old and has been admitted in hospital. He was detected with pneumonia. X ray and Scan of Thorax (CRCT) was done which still shows some patch. Antibiotic dose are over, but the doctor is still not sure about the patch. He is terribly weak and is unable to sit up. He is still in hospital. He has cough but it is not coming out. Doc's suggest FNAC and other test to rule out TB or Cersonogenic development. He had fever about 100 degrees Celsius yesterday. What can be the possible result ? Please advise.

What is wrong with my xbox 360 live connection?

well the source of the entire problem. is that you got an xbox 360. not a ps3. that would be the source of this problem.

Something is wrong with my health, what could it be?

For a few weeks now I get these terribly painful headaches also 4-5 times a day my vision goes blury and it's impossible for me to see. And when I'm writting something down it's like my brain doesn't controll my eyes they like keep moving, and the other week my ear was bleeding and my legs keep going numb and my head gets heavy and my balance isn't so good some of the time, my speech keeps messing up meaning that my words come out in the wrong order and I when I'm reading it physically hurts. What could be wrong please help, thanks in advance

HELP,I NEED TO RUN AWAY FROM HERE OR I'LL COMMIT SUICIDE.?

You have every reason to live. Be strong and plan things out to go away. Killing is never the answer.

Should I change plans?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years, and for awhile we've been extremely shakey. He has an infidelity problem and it drives me crazy because I love him and I want nothing more than to have him to myself and live happily ever after. However I was accepted to Fisk University in Tennessee, and we live in California. I'm waiting to see if they gave me the full scholarship. And if they did I'm going. But a part of me wants to put off my dreams and just go to to a school in California so we can be together. I'm scared that if I leave he may move on indefinitely,and ill never get over him. However maybe if I do go he will realize what he had with me and when I get back things will be better. I know its stupid to risk my future but I love him and I really want to be with him forever. What do I do? Will my absence make his heart grow finder? Or will it make me grow stronger and help me to move on? Please answer nicely.

Isn't this hypocritical?

Proponents against women with guy friends say that married women that have them are likely to commit adultery. What? Let me give my argument. Adultery is no worse because women with guy friends are more mainstream now than before. Look at 1987, years before women with guy friends were even accepted, adultery and infidelity were already an issue. And in Latin America, it's also hypocritical. Some of these nations that look down on women with guy friends--especially married women with guy friends--are also hypocritical too. Panama, a Latin country that supposedly has contempt for these women--is number four on a list of countries with very high divorce rates, and all the countries in this list--except maybe Barbados--has a thing against women with guy friends.

My on again off again boyfriend and I got back together 2 months ago and he's already fooling around?

We have been doing this for 8 years now, we have a 6 year old son together. We keep breaking up and getting back together each time we break up it is because of his infidelities. I guess I'm an idiot for expecting him to change but normally we get a 6 month period of him being faithful and trying to be a good dad. Two months ago he came back and I've been supporting him financially because he doesn't work and he doesn't have a dime to his name. Yesterday, I opened my browser on my computer and he was still logged into FB - I saw that he had been emailing several females asking them to get together with him. I viewed the history after this and he had also been in Plenty of Fish communicating with women. I have offered to have an open relationship with him and he refuses to do so because he doesn't want ME seeing other people. I really want my son to have a 2 parent household and am willing to put up with ALOT to achieve that. I really don't know what to do.

Is it okay to punish my cheating husband by getting an abortion?

I just found out that my husband of 2 years has been having an affair with my sister. It's been going on for 6 months and I am furious. I am currently pregnant with our 1st child. I really want to hurt my husband, so I am going to get an abortion since he is pro-life and a practicing catholic, despite his infidelity. It might make him leave me, but I don't care - I just want him to feel the pain that I do. I can always get pregnant again later. Is aborting his child is the best way to get back at my husband or is there something else that might hurt him even more?

Why dont girls understand why dudes dont like tattoos(and piercings)?

I've read a couple posts recently about guys who dont like girls with tattoos, and generally the guy comes off sounding like a judgemental jerk and the people who support girls with tattoos and piercings win the arguement. In most of those posts, the guys say something like "girls with tattoos are dirty and trashy", which is often times true but by all means its not a given. That instantly makes the argument against girls with tattoos seem like a terribly one sided and stupid argument (like gay marriage or abortion), when in reality the issue with girls with body modification is extremely simple. The reason most guys dont like girls with piercings or tattoos is.......Because their not ATTRACTIVE! Girls bodies are adored because of their curves, their smooth and unscarred skin, and ultimately just natural beauty. I think i speak for most men when i say that piercings or tattoos ruin the beauty, and the prettyness (i know its not a word) of the female body. I personally wouldnt want to be in a relationship with any girl with a tattoo or piercing (not ear of course), not because i think they have a billion STD's, but because they look UNNATURAL. I dont care what the tattoo is, it looks unnatural! I dont understand why girls never seem to realize this.

Shouldn't the "birthers" be hounding the govt. agency responsible for verifying presidential citizenship?

They're too busy hounding each other than to actually be embarrassed by bringing this up to any credible agency.

Need 2 spoilers on the anime fortune arterial?

first is i would like to know who Kohei Hasekura ends up with the vice prez chick or his old friend the second spoiler i need is does he ever get turned to a vampire >?

Are the Birthers going to commit suicide now that...?

That would be nice, as it would free the remaining 99.9% of conservatives to do what needs to be done without the specter of those wackos hanging over our heads.

Divorcing my husband. What am I entitled to? (army)?

Been married since dec 31st 2008. He's in the army. Recently found out about infidelity and he also was violent towards me. Even got me arrested for domestic asssult after defending myself. What am I entitled in terms of money? No kids involved.

Could someone shed a little light on this please?

She is using your mess to slingshot herself off in a different direction, which is not the way you are going.

PLEASE HELP! I am SO Depressed! I feel like I will never make it in life. :(?

dude! please dont do anything to yourself. theres much better things to do with yourself then hurt yourself. youre going through a bad spell. we've all been there. it feels like a whole that you cant get out of. no worries. just pull yourself together and think of everything in life that is stressing you out. take a deep breath and write it all down. this way you feel like youve at least gotten it off your chest. you are an amazing person and there is nothing better than saving human life. you are beautiful and you are amazing. talk to a school counselor or trusted adult immediately and just tell your heart out. they'll listen. you're never alone. don't let anyone tell you anything but good things, cause thats what you are. you'll make it through! have faith. please. you are not worth anything less than perfection. you are perfection and God made you just the way you are supposed to be. dont give up!! find help immediately, we'll all pray for you; and youll make it through. just remember you are beautiful, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. god bless!!

What do i do at this point?

im 16 yrs old n in sept. ill b 17. This week i was arrested for stealing 60$ worth of merchandise. This was my 1st offense for anything so when i was arrested my fingerprints and mugshot are now added with my name. ive been out of school since Jan2011 and have been working on an online download ged prep. im not ready to take the test but i think it has to b done soon so it will help in court. i was also thinking by getting a job it will help my chances as well but idk what else will. i just want to show that it was a first time thing and i don't want to end up in jail like my dad. i regret my actions terribly and just want to move past all this but i need to know what the judge will do to me and how i can prevent my consequences from ruining my life.

I want our relationship to work and he wants it to work but it is just not working what do we do?

We have been together for 1 year and 7 months we moved in with one another after about 7 months and have had quite a few extraordinary issues dealing with trust In which he lost my trust (no infidelity). We fight and cant area about most important things. Things like who it is and isnt appropriate to talk to and in what way via txt. Also what behavior is appropriate as far as going out and staying out. Recently we had a huge blow out and I decided to move out. I am so torn as to whether we should continue this or not. If you need me to clarify anything any probing questions I will answer I am so lost I love him so much but Im exhausted and want to give up.

What is the right thing to do?

I've been with this girl on and off for 2 years now. I've grown to like her a lot, maybe I just got accustomed to her. Things were falling apart terribly the last 6 months of our relationship, so we decided to take a break to do self searching, maybe date other people and see what we really want, and meanwhile we would remain friends. Obviously it was very hard to remain just friends, it was unhealthy because there was sexual tension constantly there. So we decided not to talk to each other. And now, 2 months later she sends me a random text saying she wants to get together for coffee and catch up on things. I was OK with it, I thought maybe this is a good test to see where our feelings are for each other. We met up for coffee, talked things out and both agreed that we had each other in our minds this whole time we were apart. But I'm not so sure I'm the right person for her, I don't know if I can make her happy. I can honestly say I love her, and I want her to be happy, even if it means being her best friend. So my question is: Should I buy the new Call of Duty for PS3 when it comes out? Ten points and five stars to best answer.

I don't know what to do about my sex?

Hi I'm 20 years old and have always really had a big problem getting hard for sex...I tried to have sex when I was 14 and I couldn't get hard...I tried again when I was 15 and still couldn't...I became very self conscious of this and terribly imbarrased that I didn't try again untill I was almost 18...When I tried at about 18 I was able to get hard and I was so ecstatic I was able to have sex with this girl every time we tried and I thought I had broke the curse but when we recently split up I tried to have sex with another girl for the first time and again I couldn't get hard...frustrated imbarrased and upset I still gave it yet another try and I got the same result...I wasn't able to get hard...please give me any advice or information you might have regarding this situation...thank you very much

I like a girl but I already have a girlfriend. What should I do?

This time u want to be friends with her,once u'll be friends with her u will try to get close with her and so proposal and all.why do u want to cheat ur gf,,u will find many a people in ur life who will carry some kinda qualities ,so u cant think to be friends with each people rite??and more over u dont even know whether she is single .Dont think about her,she is just an air bubble u will forget her once u will done with ur exams.U have a girl think for her what if she catches u,do u want to break her heart just fir a silly reason.Every one has some kind of good qualities and bad qualities.the girl whom u r thinking about may have some bad qualities and ur gf may have some good qualities.No one can carry only good qualities we are human beings not God.Be happy with ur Girl

What do you think of "the Donalds" plans to nuke China, and send Obama to Guantanamo if we elect him Prez?

If you listen to Donald you would know that his plan is nothing like this. Just another Democrat that is avoiding the fast that Trump would cream Obama in 2012.

Who has more power to stop his suffering?

Unfortunately its the women's fault because she agreed to sleep with the priest .they both have to confess to the husband due to what happened.

Statistics on infidelity in the US?

the last stats I saw in the USA were about 70%+ of married couples had some form of infidelity in the span of the relationship. This wouldn't be hard to find with a Google search.

When will Prez Obama send NATO to the Ivory Coast area?

They asked for a deal like Prez Bush did in liberia and send in the Marines for an orderly transition. We know how many have been killed there and shelling the largest city is not good.

Help Me With My Future Please?

I am in high school right now and I have been thinking a lot about my future. For a couple years now I have wanted to be a Plastic Surgeon. The reason because I would be in it for the money and it would be fun for me. I would go through med school and move to new york and start a practice. I have good grades in school now. I know it would be very hard to do. Now the other way, my Godfather inspires me because he is very wealthy and well off, a good person, smart, and has a good family. He owns a company that my dad is vice prez of and he also invented the gameshark and has owned other countries and just recently opened a bar/restaurant that is doing very well. I wanted to open some sort of restaurant because I like food and I like being around people. I want to be just like him. Please help me.

How long should my jaw hurt post-wisdom teeth extraction?

I had all four removed six days ago. Two were described as "partially bony" and two were described as "completely bony." I don't know what that means. Anyway, I used the prescription painkillers until they ran out, now I use Tylenol and Advil. One extraction site and the jaw below still hurt terribly. I haven't slept in six days. Should I make an appointment with my oral surgeon?

Was the movie 'All Dogs Go To Heaven' based on a book?

Nope, it's not a book just a 1989 movie (and a sequel and a series lol). The story of the movie was thought up by 8 other writers besides Don Bluth.

Did you notice that the fool in the White house is sicking the A.G. on price gouging instead of the FTC?

2012 is not the end of the world...2013 is the year of the NWO ( New World Order ) It's been planned and orchestrated for decades. Soros has 50 "cronies" ( Trained specifically by him ) in positions of power and influence strategically placed around the globe. You can not like it, you can not believe it, and you can hide your eyes and say it isn't happening. It changes nothing. What you inherited will be no more. The NWO will be here. Ameros will be the currency in May 2013, and your stash of cash will be worthless. The time for action ...was 10 years ago. Welcome, Welcome to the NWO.

Call of Duty: Black Ops Lost Connection To Host?

His connection timed out probably because he had a G router, like they can have perfect connection and all of a sudden it just eff's up

Is it a good idea to tell my ex's wife that he tried to get me to go out on a date with him?

I feel very guilty and I want to clean my conscious but I don't know what to day. My ex told me some weird things, that he's bored with his marriage, he's not satisfied by his wife and he cares about me. Granted, I've already concluded that he wants to get in my pants but I think his wife is a good person and mother and she deserves to be told about her douche bag of a husband. I made the mistake of flirting back with him before I realized that it was very wrong to encourage his infidelity so is there anyway I can come clean to her without making her hate me for the rest of our lives.

Something is wrong with my health, what could it be?

For a few weeks now I get these terribly painful headaches also 4-5 times a day my vision goes blury and it's impossible for me to see. And when I'm writting something down it's like my brain doesn't controll my eyes they like keep moving, and the other week my ear was bleeding and my legs keep going numb and my head gets heavy and my balance isn't so good some of the time, my speech keeps messing up meaning that my words come out in the wrong order and I when I'm reading it physically hurts. What could be wrong please help, thanks in advance

Should we expect to see the infamous White House Crashers at the Royal Wedding?

They met the Prez and Michelle w/o a "hard invite".Can they do the same "across the pond"?

Christians, how do u explain the miracles in the quran?

anyone w/ an iq over 13 can tell you taht a mythical text isnt' proof of anything, either christian or muslim....

Can you please help me? feeling insecure next to this girl and now I'm going to...?

I feel the same way with this girl, we're not friends, never were, and it seems to me like anything I can do, she can do better, she had the perfect life, and I feel like I deserve it so much more than her. I've stopped going on her page, and I'm working on improving myself.

Should I just stop trying to find a girlfriend? Even with what I did in the past?

I'm 21 and in college, just finished third year of studies. I have no girlfriend, never had one in all years of schooling (Pre-School through now). I have a hard time trying to talk with girls. I shake when I am around any of them. I tried a couple of times in college to find friends, even friends who are girls (I have transferred to three different schools btw). When I was in high school, I got in trouble and was sent to the Dean's office. There were allegations of sexual harrasment from multiple girls that I interacted in conversation with; some thought I was trying to get them to take their clothes off. I never did this, but the Deans believed them and recommended my suspension. One girl tried to get me expelled for Rape accusations (believe it or not, that girl who was two years younger than me graduated Validictorian from the school). But I never touched these girls nor said inapproproate comments towards them. I never even touched the one who accused me of rape. I was just a little too close to them, asked them questions about stuff I should not have i.e. boyfriends, where they live, what streets they're on, etc. I was so stupid at the time, I should have just stayed away. I wanted to interact with them, but now I realize it is horrible. I am still kicking myself for it, even three years after I graduated. Even in college now, I have vowed to stay away from all girls for fear they could send me to the Dean's or President's office. I have tried to talk to girls while in classes, but they do not talk to me, instead they just spend all of their time on texting devices/Facebook/Twitter. I also have this strange fear they are going to put my name all over Facebook or Twitter if I come anywhere near them. I had a really bad experience in high school, that's what I am saying. Its affected me in college, because every time a girl goes near me, its like flashbacks from high school. I just feel like I should stop trying to make friends (especially with girls). I feel like I might as well put myself on a lifetime ban from all girls in years to come. No dating, No marriage, no nothing. I feel like whats the use, I'll get the same answer from everyone all the time. What I am asking is should I stop trying to find a girlfriend in college? Should I just stop trying to find friends all together because of what I did in high school/ just give up looking? My life has been hell since the end of high school because of all that happened. I keep fearing the Dean's or Prez will pull me in or have the police send me to jail or prison because of my interactions with girls.

My girlfriend has a crazy Ex and its killing me?

A girl I used to date back in the day..."the one who got away". Has come back in my life after almost 10 years. In the years that have past she married a scumbag, pathological liar, who cheated on her most of their marriage. Which is stupid because she is WAY out of his league...and he should have considered himself lucky to have her as a wife. When I showed up in her life...she realized that she should have done much better than him. She asked him about the infidelity and he admitted it out of cockyness because he had her so abused he, thought she wouldnt do anything. She is now divorcing him....he is freaking out. He is making her like a living hell. Threatening legal action with the kids, making up stories to make her look bad to fellow parents at the school...just plain old manipulation of all the people connected to her. Its is ruining her life. Basicaly he said, if you are going to divorce me, I am going to make sure your life is ruined. Now to the question...I love this girl. She is all I have EVER wanted. My hatred for him is keeping me up at night...he texts her and calls her names like fatty, and cottage cheese thighs (when she isnt fat) but he is just that type of guy. I want to protect her! I cant have somebody talk to my girlfriend like that...or my future wife...it doesnt matter if they were married, or they have kids. I dont know what to do. The stress of how easy it is for this guy to be a scumbag makes me SICK. And the good people get run over. I know there are legal steps that can be taken, but they cost money....which we dont have. I basically need help to separate myself from this fight so I can focus on work...but still love and protect her. This guy is the WORST person anybody could have in their life...why does he have to be in hers...the love of my life. Please somebody tell me how I can deal with this stress.

Downtalking our prez?!?!, wow, I cant believe people out there with their doubts!?

he is just a fine fine president, he never would tell a lie, I know that, he certainly wouldn't want to harm his own people inside of his own country that he leads, he was properly elected, he went to columbia, he tried hard to not hire so many lobbyists in his administration and that was all I needed because that was aTRUE EFFORT, even if it was that he just had to hire A FEW!, maybe he will lead this country out from under the shadow of debt.!, maybe I myself like him will be stronger now in light of his accomplishments and not salute our flag!

With the situation as it is who would you rather see as prez Bush, Carter, Clinton or Reagan?

We need someone like Reagan, but someone who is fiscally responsible who will QUIT ALL THE SPENDING.

Chances of getting this job.?

This would be my first job. I sent my application in about 2 weeks ago and they called back and scheduled a job interview with me thursday. It's at a place called Rocky Rococo's. It's a small pizza chain, it gets an average amount of business and from what I can tell, they don't have too many employees. There are usually no more than 3 employees in at a time. Assuming nothing goes TERRIBLY wrong during the interview, what do you think my chances are?

Is it time to separate?

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for just over 2 of them. We have been through so much together and I am at a point now where I believe we need a break. We have a 3 year old daughter who we love dearly. It is for her sake that I am most hesitant to leave. Before we were married he cheated on me once and I only found out by finding the evidence in his phone. I thought all it would take would be one time but I forgave him. Since that time there has been numerous occassions of him talking to women; claiming he is single, and basically trying to sleep with them in the end if they will let him. I have found out about a good bit of these conversations but I still forgave him. Against my gut I married him and it wasn't even a month later where I found conversations on Myspace where he was downgrading me to a female and trying to get in her pants. That was the most hurtful thing because we hadn't even been married 2 months. With this same behavior going on I started to seek comfort in someone else and we ended up sleeping together. I would have never cheated on my husband but I felt like I was just. In actuality I was not better than he. I admitted my infidelity to him and we both cried and both decided to start fresh and forgive and move on together. He is a great dad and it breaks my heart to think how it would affect my daughter if we seperated. I recently found more conversations in his phone trying to hook up with other women. I didn't cry this time or confront him. I love him so much still but I can't keep living my life this way. I feel that he will never change. I don't want to hurt my daughter but I don't want to stay in a marriage where I am not happy. I need advice on what to do.....should we seperate or should I tough it out so my daughter won't be crushed? I have every intent on letting him see her; I would never deny him or her that.

Best baby-wearing device for 6 months+?

The Moby wrap is not very comfortable for larger babies. Keep an eye out for an Ergo on sale or even used for $50-70. I used my Ergo up until 2 weeks ago with my 18 month old daughter. You will definitely get your money worth!

Struggling Relationship.?

So my girlfriend and I live together at my parents house (kill me) and we have a 1 1/2 year old son. We have been slowly falling apart for the last year or so and admittedly, because of me mainly. I've had drug and alcohol problems my whole life and with that comes all kinds of ****. Infidelity, financial ruins all that ****. I've been sober 4 months today and going to AA 3 times a week and its working great for me. But I just cant seem to fix us, through all the **** i've put her through. I just dont know what to do anymore. Its like i cant do anything right, she trusts me ZERO percent. I totally understand why she is the way she is, but HOW DO WE MOVE FORWARD????

RHH: What's your opinion on Mos Def's Rock N Roll?

It's Mos Def saying how black people invented rock music and how he likes black artists more than white artists. A lot of black artists deserve more credit, but they had no chance. They came up in a time when white people could take their sh*t, re-record it, and get rich. It wasn't fair but that's how it was. Mos Def is just b*tching about it. I kinda like the song. But it's pretty lame for a Mos Def song.

Am I an unfit mother?

I am a mother of 2 children a little boy 10 months and a 4 year old girl. I was recently divorced from their father and moved to a different city because I could not deal with his infidelity. The city I moved to so far this year I have held 4 jobs. I am not working due to the fact I could not afford to pay someone to keep them plus pick them up from daycare and school plus no emergency person to pick them up when they are sick he is only enforced to pay me $340 a month for our children. I was trying to explain to him when you have kids you have to upgrade to a bigger place its not like you can have a one bedroom with a boy and a girl. He wants to get his kids saying that I am not a good mother because I do not have a job. I do my best I made sure that I kept my appointment for foodstamps so they can eat and Medicaid to go to the doctor. The child support helps me out some. If his parents and my parents would help more things would be different. I am a certified pharmacy technician waiting on an opening. I have always supported my kids financially. It is June 9 and I have started school shopping almost finished with my daughters things. I bought my son clothes ralph lauren clothes from the store they were on sale. My ex has a criminal record just recently released from federal probation. I believe it is jealousy because I have a nice place and he wants to see me doing bad. Note everytime he sends child support it is spent on the kids and utilities not on me. I just bought myself some shoes its been 4 years because I put my children first. Does it seem as if I am unfit.

How do I get my husband back after infidelity accusations?

I am a popular restaurant critic from Philly. I suspected my husband was cheating on me so I hired a private investigator. It turns out my husband wasn't cheating on me at all! Now, the private investigator is harassing both of us and my husband seems distant ever since I confessed this. How do I get my husband back? Also, I have a young son.

Can anyone explain why Fox News gives all this time to Palin and Bachmann and no time to Herman Cain?

if you haven't heard Herman Cain speak I would suggest you search him out. He founded Godfather's Pizza and has all the qualifications to be a great president...unlike Palin who failed miserably in 2008 to help McCain then QUITS her job as governor of AK to make $$$$$ ( right she is just who we need to be our next prez ) and Bachmann has nothing to bring to the table except her inflated ego...wait a minute...I think I know why people are not giving Herman Cain a chance...McCain....Cain....NO WONDER :-).

Help me please ?! I want to change this ?

I really want a boyfriend . I've been feeling extremely lonely , but the thing is I'm extremely picky. I can't help the way I am. I don't believe I should be , but I do have standards . Ive had 2 previous relationships , but ended terribly. I suppose I have trust issues. What should I do to help getting a boyfriend and not being so picky.

Do you think this is a bad idea??????????? HELP!?

OK. i took my summer quarter final exam a week ago. I don't think I did well. Professor told the class that he will have the grades in by the end of this week. He says he is going to grade on curve so if the entire class did bad, it's going to help us. I think I did not too terribly but there's chance that depending on other students, that I might have a terribel grade, D or F. because I'm not sure how I did... So... should I go talk to the professor tomorrow before he turns in the grades and ask him for advice how I can improve on the future test? (I'm currently taking his 2nd course too). and get some advice on studying tips and ask him how I did on the final? Or do you think this will look shady, he will see me as opportunistic kid because I never talked to him privately or after class before... Pleae let me know!! Thanks!!

Summer with nothing to do...Improve college chances?

You don't have any activities related to science or math, but you're planning to apply to top science schools. The least you need for those is something like a science club, and half the kids who get into CalTech each year have already done original research with a college professor. To have a shot at those schools, that's the kind of thing you should have been doing this summer - but unless you've got a connection at a university, it's really too late to try to get something like that.

I hit my boyfriend and i need to stop.?

We've been together 5 months and whenever I'm angry I hit and throw stuff at my my boyfriend. Its gotten so bad I've left bruises on myself from hitting him and actually accidentally hit smelf and gave myself a bloody nose. I apologize all the time for it and he says it okay because he's a big Guy and he can handle it. I've never been this way and I'm so terribly in love with him I feel ashamed that I do this too him. We are both bipolar but he's never hit me nor have I had the fear That he would. Has anyone else been through this? How can I stop and mend our relationship?

What does it tell you, when Obama was the first prez to be sworn in in private.?

He was sworn in in private because he didn't want to use a bible. He wanted to use a Quran. That what it tells me. Either that or the swearing in in public was a coloring book not a bible. See, he would melt if he touches a bible. Hence the "mistake" and the need to do it again.

I'm deciding either I should move on or keep waiting?

My crush and I have been friends for a year. I love him but I'm not sure if he does love me too. There were times I thought he did or he didn't. The thing is, he keeps talking to me about his best friend a.k.a my enemy who terribly loves him too. He always wants her to be with him. I feel worthless and I'm confused because sometimes he treats me nicely and sometimes he treats me horribly. Then I had a crush with someone else but I found out he felt nothing about me. Now I'm attached to my old crush but I'm confused. I want to move on and live my life but a huge part of me says I should stick with the old one and keep putting efforts into the relationship with the new one. What do you think? What should I do? :(

Should Borderline Personality Disordered people tell future mates that they have diagnosis and what it means?

With so much self-sabotage after the honeymoon phase (i.e. infidelity, suicidal gestures, raging, moodiness, someone dual personalities that turn off and on within minutes or hours aand even cutting and hair pulling of one's self). Should you tell a prospective partner that you have this mental illness or should you stay in therapy and just hope that therapy cures it before the next relationship is destroyed? Bear in mind, every relationship has been destroyed through due to having BPD. It is a personal unavoidable history, but is it the future? My therapist is providing a good therapeutic bond, but admittedly knows little to nothing about BPD treatments other than CBT.

HPV and Infidelity Dormancy?

You can have HPV for may years without it causing an abnormal Pap smear. It could be the result of his affair, or it could be something you've had for years.

What are some good shoujo anime to watch?

Ouran High School Host Club, Pita Ten, Tsuyokiss, Eureka Seven -it's shounen, but it's really cute :3-

A bit of history, anyone?

There was quite a bit of animosity between Aaron Burr and Alexander Hamilton. It stemmed not only from political differences but personal as well. I think it was Burr who challenged Hamilton to the duel which took place in 1804 in NJ. Although Burr was charged with two counts of murder neither went to trial. It was a nasty time period and the duel was the accumulation of a whole lot of bad feelings between the two founding fathers.

Should we all be more accepting of the gender stereotypes, because they have scientific basis?

I never even thought about cheating on my husband. He met my needs in many more ways than sex but he met those needs as well. I did not expect gifts. I also worked and helped with the expenses of living. The day to day interaction was what was important to me. Love is caring for the happiness and welfare of each other and enjoying one another's company.

What's another word for speech?

I'm leaving seventh...I have to give a little prez, and my school is closing, so i want it to be powerful. What's a friendly,casual word for speech, kinda like "talk" but less vague. I want to say, "She has asked me to give you folks a little _____ to share my feelings at the end of the year and Wilson School."

Where can I find permanent purple hair dye?

I dyed my hair purple using Manic Panic almost three weeks ago, and it has faded terribly. I've been trying to find a more permanent purple or blue hair dye so I won't have to keep re-dying it so often. Any suggestions?

I am afraid of marriage (fear of infidelity)?

You need to sort out the hurt you recieved from your parents issues. Then have faith that there is that one person out there for you! If it makes you feel any better, I am absolutely in love with and devoted to my husband and our kids. I have never cheated and neither has he. Yes, times have got rough, we've fought, been down to our last dollar, but we stayed by each other and never gave up. So if he got me, why can't you find a good faithful wife too?? Have Faith.

I Find the British Monarchy to be Positively SCANDALOUS, Don't You?

A rich history filled with infidelity, murder, thieving, slaveholding, and poor table manners. Nevermind about the infamous inbreeding. Ewww. A scandalous lot--all of them! I don't give a fig how photogenic these people are--SCANDALOUS! And the snobbery. Jesus, Mary and Joseph--the snobbery!

Took husband back...now realized i no longer love him?

After 10 yrs of being together My husband cheated on me and left me and our 3 month old daughter he wanted to come back right away but I did not take him back. After a year I finally said I would give it another try . he moved back in last week, and I realized I no longer love him the way I once did.i keep playing back over and over the things he said and keep thinking about the womean he left me for. Have any of you ever gone through this? Taken a partner back after infidelity? Just to realize the love is no longer there or is it resentment? Any advice?

How Should I Handle My Stage Fright?

I'm what you could consider a "rookie" cos-player. At a convention my friends and I will be attending, we're going to do a walk-on with some costumes I've made myself. I've watched videos on Youtube of walk-ons and such. But I get terribly nervous even watching the videos themselves. I can't seem to build up the confidence to actually sit there and watch the videos, how should I handle this?

Do you miss your kids terribly when they are gone?

My son (8 years old) stayed in town with my mother last night, and I missed him so much it hurt. I called him 5 times yesterday. He was having a great time, and he certainly wasn't missing me as much as I was him. Do you miss your kids terribly when they aren't home?

Did you ever really get "over it"?

my husband and I have had our fair shares of infidelity. After years and years of fighting over it, I felt I was over the pain I went through when he cheated on me. I got comfortable with joking about them because it has been years and years since they happened, those other women don't matter anymore. I thought I had gained my husband's trust back when we recently met a girl that he is clearly attracted to. I have started feeling completely insecure about our relationship and even suspect him cheating on me. Am I just being crazy and having all these suspicions because it has happened in the past, but it's really not? Or should I go with my gut instict and investigate a little more?