What do you do if you want someone to fall in love with you but you don't want to hurt them (complicated)?

You're crazy. and you clearly have no respect. if you're a woman, you have no respect for yourself. If you're a man, you have no respect for women. what kind of person "inevitably" cheats? skip reading this, i don't care. but you're a douch. i've never been in a relationship where pain equals love. you're crazy